What a Difference a Day Makes

On Friday at the Jersey shore, pods of dolphins frolicked in the ocean so near to shore you could almost touch them. Down the beach, over 50 fishing boats of all sizes clustered off the coast. The stripers were running, and under the bright cloudless sky, everything looked beautiful in the world.

Overnight, the winds kicked in, and the glass patio doors rattled as the rain pounded without mercy. The ocean waves grew white in ferocity. That morning, the sun hid behind the nor’easter’s bleak greyness.

What a difference a day makes.

Life situations can change overnight as well. A phone call from a family member with bad news, a visit to the doctor with a grim diagnosis, a commute into work to be told it’s your last day, so many more circumstances that can alter the course of a life, much less lead to a bad day.

Can there be any good news when the most terrible announcements overwhelm and overtake daily life?

Fortunately, yes.

God is bigger than your circumstances. His plans aren’t derailed when it seems the worst has happened. Sometimes, great disappointments can even be blessings in disguise.

God is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

After every winter comes the new life of spring. Seasons change, but God never does.

The nor’easter lasted a day, and the sun came out after the storm blew through. But more importantly, the sun was there all the time – I just didn’t see it. When I heard the wind and saw the clouds, I focused on them and ignored the fact that the sun was there all along. I couldn’t see it, so I didn’t think about it.

We are engaged in spiritual warfare, and an effective enemy tactic is to distract our focus. He uses busyness, family or friend problems, work concerns, over-sensitivity, self-consciousness, financial worries, even national and local elections, to attract our attention. But when we concentrate on eternal matters, the things of this world dim in comparison. Like looking through the lens of a camera, if our focus is on things nearby, those details in the background are fuzzy. When we adjust the lens, we can bring the background into crisp detail, and the close things are less harrowing.

If we choose, as Paul did, what we focus on and “fix our eyes … on the eternal,” by comparison, we will be able to view our troubles as “light and momentary” AND “achieving eternal glory,” blessings in disguise.

 “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:17-18 

Seasons come and go, but we will reap in due time IF we do not lose heart:

And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart. Galatians 6:9

Father, I pray for those in difficult circumstances – that You would impart your peace to their troubled hearts, soothe their spirit, and help them to focus on the eternal. Let these trying times be useful in molding us to Your image.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Do you ever have “separation anxiety”?

http://theversesproject.com/verses/176/Romans-8.35-37
http://theversesproject.com/verses/176/Romans-8.35-37

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? … No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:35, 38-39

As a child, my daughter and some of her little classmates often suffered from separation anxiety. Leaving their moms at the door to preschool became a test of patience and grace. The moms knew they weren’t leaving their children, but the children’s perspective was one of separation.

I saw a quote today on Facebook that read, “Anxiety is the result of envisioning the future without Me.”

As God’s children, we can be comforted to know that He will never leave us or forsake us. He has assured us of that repeatedly (Deut. 31:6, Deut. 31:8, Joshua 1:5, 1 Kings 8:57 and Hebrews 13:5). Nothing can separate us from His love (Rom. 8).

Jesus left His home in heaven to dwell among us. Did He experience separation anxiety? No, Jesus said that He and the Father are one. Though wrapped in flesh and living as a man, He was one with His Father. And He said that we are one with Him.

So if He feels distant, the question is: Who moved?

As far as we might feel from God sometimes, it is only ever one step back into experiencing His presence. “Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord.” Acts 3:19

“You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of Your presence and the pleasures of living with You forever.” Psalm 16:11

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Wise Words For These UNwise Times

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I don’t know about you, but it seems to me that today there are many squawkers, complaining about our land, how far it’s come from our founding fathers, etc.

But does God call us to complain or to humbly pray for our leaders, the media, educators, etc., and seek God’s face in the middle of the turmoil?

We do need godly people – in political office, casting votes, on the school boards, writing letters to editors, speaking up for the unborn and the downtrodden, being salt and light. ABSOLUTELY!

But we don’t need good people to do things in a bad way – to militantly declare their positions without humility or prayer or seeking God’s face or turning from their own wicked ways.

It seems that people are more interested in OTHERS turning from their wicked ways then themselves doing any turning.

As the body of Christ living in decidedly ungodly times, we are in a position to be Jesus to the world. We must take our behavioral cues from the One who set the standard to follow.

As a 24 year old Jewish girl, I became a believer in Jesus Christ because of His words in the Sermon on the Mount. When I questioned God about His command to love our enemies, He answered with His own words – “if you only love those who love you, even the (sinners) do that.” The difference between His followers and everyone else He created (yes, He created your enemies!) is that His followers speak the truth IN LOVE, they seek to LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY, they desire to LOVE and SERVE THE LEAST OF THESE.

Can we view these turbulent times as opportunities to personally develop in Christ-likeness? And to outwardly show the world the love of Christ – He who came to save THEM?

After Jesus told His disciples to love their enemies, He told them to “be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” But how can we be perfect? James, the brother of Jesus, tells us it is through our trials and challenges that we develop perseverance which, in turn, does its work making us mature, complete, perfect (James 1:2). In other words, trials and challenges are opportunities, and as JB Phillips says in his translation, “Welcome your trials as friends.”

Before we stridently say, “I believe her” or “I believe him,” can we say “I believe Him!” and act accordingly?

 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” Matt. 5:43-48

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Are you seeing – Or looking??

Acts 3-3-5

When he saw Peter and John about to enter, he asked them for some money. Peter and John looked at him intently, and Peter said, “Look at us!” The lame man looked at them eagerly, expecting some money.  

But Peter said, “I don’t have any silver or gold for you. But I’ll give you what I have. In the name of Jesus Christ the Nazarene, get up and walk”

Then Peter took the lame man by the right hand and helped him up. And as he did, the man’s feet and ankles were instantly healed and strengthened. He jumped up, stood on his feet, and began to walk! Then, walking, leaping, and praising God, he went into the Temple with them.

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In the passage from Acts, we read about a lame beggar laying outside the temple gate called Beautiful. I find it interesting that Scripture says that the man “saw” Peter and John, yet Peter replied, “Look at us!” If the man saw them, even asked for money, why did Peter tell him to look at them?

When the man asked Peter and John for money, it doesn’t say they “saw” the man. It says  that Peter and John “looked at him intently.”

There’s a difference between “seeing” and “looking.”  

  • SEEING = the process of observing, involuntary, passive
  • LOOKING = conscious consideration, active interpretation (the bigger picture)

Seeing is something we do without thought. It’s what our eye sees without trying, a process of observing the world around us in an arbitrary way as we go about our daily lives. 

Looking is like squinting at life to actively make meaning of that world with a more involved sense of purpose and direction. 

The lame man saw Peter and John as a chance to receive what he WANTED.

Peter and John looked at him and gave him what he NEEDED.

The lame man was correct in EXPECTING to receive SOMETHING from them. But he received so much more than the monetary donation he would have been satisfied with!

Many of us haven’t even come to the place where we really expect something from God. This is FAITH. We should expect the right things from God. We are so often willing to settle for much less than God wants to give us, and our low expectations rob us.

And all the people saw him walking and praising God. Then they knew that it was he who sat begging alms at the Beautiful Gate of the temple; and they were filled with wonder and amazement at what had happened to him. Acts 3:9-10

The people were filled with wonder and amazement!

  • WONDER = awe felt in the presence of divine activity
  • AMAZEMENT= the state of being lifted out of one’s habitual life & thought by encountering the power of God

When was the last time you were filled with wonder and amazement at the work of God in your life or someone elses? Can we be lifted out our OUR habitual life and thought by encountering the power of God?

Can we stop seeing and start looking!

 

 

Weeping and Joy

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As I write this post, I am barely recognizable. Poison ivy is covering most of my face which is swollen, itchy, stinging, dark red, with weeping sores all over it. I spent much of the past two days researching treatment for poison ivy and kept coming across that word – weeping. Each time I saw it, I remembered God’s promise:

“Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” Psalm 30:5

I kept hoping that in the morning, the rash, with its weeping and swelling, would be gone. But alas, it wasn’t. And that begs the question: did my joy come in the morning or not? Is my joy dependent upon the presence of or the lack of an annoying rash? In the larger picture, is our joy dependent upon our circumstances? Can we be joyful in the middle of the struggle?

I believe we can. I believe that’s God’s promise to us.

He says that we weep at night, when it’s dark, when our thoughts can be our own worst enemy. But the morning brings light, and those first rays puncturing the darkness help us to see our circumstances in a whole new way.

The Word says “there is a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance.” Eccl. 3:4 

When Nehemiah, with Ezra and the Levites, saw the people mourning over the destruction of the walls of Jerusalem, he said, “’This day is holy to the Lord your God. Do not mourn or weep.’ For all the people had been weeping as they listened to the words of the Law. Nehemiah said, ‘… Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.’ The Levites calmed all the people, saying, ‘Be still, for this is a holy day. Do not grieve.’ Then all the people went away …to celebrate with great joy, because they now understood the words that had been made known to them.

Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes with the light of dawn, with new understanding of the Word. When the light of God’s presence pierces the dark, joy comes. And His joy is not dependent on the time of day or a change in circumstances. He Himself is our light, and in Him, there is no darkness at all. (1 John 1:5)

It is indeed possible to experience joy despite our circumstances when:

  • we know the One who causes EVERYthing to work together for good (Rom 8:28).
  • we know that our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. (2 Cor. 4:17-18)
  • we know the everlasting God, the creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary; and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. … but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like an eagle; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk, and not faint. Isaiah 40:28-31

Will you join me in seeking the Light in the midst of darkness? I can say that though my circumstances haven’t changed for the better, God’s presence lifted my spirit and brought joy.

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Is Any Prayer Too Small For God?

I’ve heard quotes like these for years:

There is no problem so big that God is not bigger still. There is no issue so small that God does not care about it.

God is so big that the universe cannot contain Him, yet He is so small He can fit inside your heart.

But they’re just words until you see them in action.

This past Saturday, Justice Network (my organization that raises awareness about human trafficking) hosted a food truck festival. It was our first effort to put on an event like this. We partnered with my home church and enlisted co-sponsorship from our state Coalition. But the work of planning, preparing, publicity, and so much more was handled by a small group of six. We called ourselves the “ninja team.” My husband called us the “High Mountain Core of Engineers”.

Throughout the process of creating the event, we did our research and solicited advice (some of which was conflicting and confusing), but throughout it all, we prayed. We prayed for the big things and the small things and everything in between.

One of my “silly” prayers (or so I thought) was a specific prayer for the length of the lines at the food trucks. We needed a delicate balance – lines too short meant that the food trucks would not make enough money for it to be worthwhile for them – lines too long meant that people would leave hungry and dissatisfied. And so I prayed for the number of people on line. Specifically that it would be between 3-6 people at a time.

I felt a little foolish praying for such an inane topic. After all, we were raising awareness about the critical issue of human trafficking – modern day slavery! We were raising money for scholarships for survivors of human trafficking! We were witnessing the church of Christ working like a healthy body should – everyone doing their part like eyes and hands and feet! We were connecting with our community on a level that had not been done before!  So many concerns of such great consequence.

As I looked around that day, there was so much to be thankful for – so many prayers that God was answering.

Including the number of people on each line!

Throughout the event, I continually walked and talked with attendees, craft table vendors, food truck vendors, the band members, and information table representatives. And I kept a watchful eye on the food truck lines. And at no time was any line too long, and more importantly, we had a steady stream of attendees – an estimated 600 people!

Lesson learned!

It’s not the size of the prayer that counts – it’s WHO I’m praying to that counts! Any other way of looking at it is a deception from the devil who would have us think that God assesses our requests with some kind of eternal measuring tool, ranking prayers with levels of importance.

Does Scripture say, “Thou shalt not bother the Lord with requests of small importance!”?

Our Aunt Anna used to pray for a parking space, help going up her steps, finding missing items. Nothing that was of concern to her was kept from her Savior. Corrie ten Boom said, “Any concern too small to be turned into a prayer is too small to be made into a burden.”

And God commands us to bring EVERYthing to Him. This instruction is not a suggestion:

“Be anxious for nothing, but in EVERYthing by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.”Phil 4:6

We may offer prayers to which God says no. Our requests may be inappropriate, immature, self-centered. Our prayers may be off target to God’s will. But, in the eyes of God, there is no prayer too small or insignificant.

Is there anything that you haven’t brought to God because you think (even if subconsciously) that the problem is too small to bother God with? Well, right now, kick the enemy out of your head, and place yourself before the Lord.

 

 

BTW – We even made the news! For more info about the event, visit our post at Justice Network.

Photo courtesy of NJ.com https://www.northjersey.com/picture-gallery/news/passaic/haledon/2018/07/14/food-truck-festival-in-north-haledon/36881387/

 

True Freedom Means Surrender

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On Independence Day, there’s a lot of talk about freedom and liberty. Thankfully, we do not live under the bondage that is found in some other countries. But all too often, we live in bondage to fear, pride, depression, anger. We may not have control over these areas of our lives. The answer is surrender.

In Bible times, slavery was common. Slaves had no freedom, but when offered freedom, some chose to live surrendered to their Master, for life with a kind Master was superior to freedom outside that home. These surrendered slaves were called “bond-slaves.” The Apostle Paul often referred to himself as a bond-slave of Jesus Christ.

While unjustly imprisoned, Paul wrote the letter to the Philippian church. In it, he says that due to his being in chains, the gospel was shared with entire palace guard. He sees that his lack of freedom had a greater purpose. He was surrendered.

From Paul’s letter to the Philippians we can discern his answers to the bondages I mentioned above:

You will not have to worry
Phil. 4:6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

You will not feel the need to be in charge
Phil 2:3-4 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.

You will experience true joy
Phil: 4:4-5 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.

You will be free from anger
Phil 2:14-15 Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe.

The Christian life is a paradox in many ways-
-When we are weak, we are strong
-The first shall be last
-You must lose your life to find it
-To live forever, you must die to yourself

And…
-True freedom means surrender to the One who owns you

Happy Independence Day to you.

May you experience true freedom in surrender to the King of Kings!

So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. John 8:36

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A Most Expensive Lesson

There I was, driving along without a care in the world, until flashing lights behind me summoned me to pull over. A ball of resentment started churning in my gut. In the days following, the ball continued to tumble around and began to grow until it demanded focused attention.

I realized I had three particular thoughts that kept me grumbling:

1- Speed trap:

The town had some nerve reducing the speed limit for a short portion of the highway just to pad their pockets at drivers’ expense.

2- Police attitude:

The policeman kept me waiting for over half hour on the side of the road because his computer wasn’t working. When he finally came to my car, I expected that he’d give me a break, but he just gave me a ticket.

3- Everyone else:

I was going the same speed as everyone else on the highway. Why did I get pulled over and not anyone else?

The resentment I was experiencing began to infiltrate my attitude, affecting other areas of my life. So it was time for some self-examination, and what I found wasn’t pretty.

1- Speed trap:

The motive for reduced speed may or may not have anything to do with revenue for the town. It’s just as likely that it was for safety. But honestly, their motive is irrelevant. It’s not up to me to make the laws; it is up to me to obey them. That’s the commitment I made when I got my driver’s license.

Life lesson: I should pay attention to what I’m responsible for and not try to manage the rest of the world. This does NOT mean that I stick my head in the sand and ignore injustices in the world. It means that I exercise discernment – I take action in situations that call for me to speak up for justice, but I don’t try to mange other people’s lives when they really are doing just fine without me.

“…make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business…” 1 Thess. 4:11

“Whether their motives are false or genuine, the message about Christ is being preached either way, so I rejoice.” Phil 1:18

2- Attitude:

I was expecting grace from the police officer and was angry when it wasn’t offered. But it’s wrong of me to maintain an expectation of grace from others. The police officer was just doing his job. He could have been nicer, but he was probably annoyed at his technology not working. And his attitude is his problem, not mine.

Life lesson: It’s up to me to appreciate grace when offered, to not grumble when it isn’t, and to offer grace whenever I can.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves,  not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had.” Phil. 2:3-5

3- Everyone else:

The bottom line is – I was speeding. Just because everyone else was speeding, doesn’t excuse my guilt. There is a legal standard, and I overstepped it. The Bible is my standard in life. Just because others might choose to follow a different standard doesn’t give me an excuse to sin.

Life lesson: I must reap what I sow, and let everyone else reap what they sow. And don’t compare myself to them. Who knows what they might be dealing with in life?

“Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. . . . And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” Gal. 6:7,9 

 

Thankfully, we have a Savior who fulfilled the law, a Savior who freely offers true grace, a Savior who paid the penalty for my guilt.

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THE Only Place To Be

photo by Lynn Brescia
photo by Lynn Brescia

For years, Psalm 91 was a favorite of mine. I even used it as my first email address. This week, my neighbor posted this photo of our lake’s resident swan family, and I instantly recalled those beautiful verses:

Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.

I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress,
my God, in whom I trust.”

Surely he will save you
from the fowler’s snare
and from the deadly pestilence.
He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.

Years ago, as class mom, I went on many a field trip. On one trip that took us to the Bronx Zoo, I felt like a mama hen trying to keep all her chicks from scattering. The children were only interested in the animals or attractions that lay ahead, but I knew the dangers if one of them escaped my watchful eye.

Just like these chicky little students of mine, we often run ahead toward whatever catches our eye, straying from safety or sanctuary.

Spurgeon said, “We are foolish and weak as poor little birds, and are very apt to be lured to our destruction by cunning foes, but if we dwell near to God, he will see to it that the most skilful deceiver shall not entrap us.”

We would be wise to know the “fowler’s snare.” The enemy of our soul employs tricks like the fowler:

  • The fowler works in secret
  • The fowler changes his trap and methods
  • The fowler often entices with pleasure or profit
  • The fowler often uses a bad example, a decoy

But thankfully, when we dwell in the shelter of the Most High, we are protected from the fowler’s snare. The mama’s wings covering her babe serves a beautiful picture of both power and gentleness. Likewise, He is our powerful, yet gentle, protector.

When the psalmist says “you,” he means you – singular – a personal promise:

  • He will save you
  • He will cover you
  • You will find refuge
  • His faithfulness will be your shield

These truths are for you personally if you dwell (stay, reside, have your home, inhabit, settle) in the shelter of the Most High.

If you’re like me, or like those chicks in my charge, it doesn’t take much to be distracted. It could be some bright, shiny thing that I lust after or a harsh word too easily spoken reflecting a hard attitude within. There’s only one thing to save me from myself. Or from the fowler. Sticking close to my Protector.

Will you choose with me to:

  • Dwell in the shelter of the Most High
  • Rest in the shadow of the Almighty
  • Say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.”

 

 

For more of God’s promises, click here to read another post with a different take on this special Psalm.

They’re NOT cute!

Chipmunk Collage

In the fall, you walk our front pathway at your peril. We have the most aggressive acorns you’ve ever seen, or felt. Honestly. The dents they render to a car’s hood or roof are nothing compared to the bumps they produce on your noggin.

Then in the spring, I tackle the unhappy chore of removing of hundreds of tiny oak trees sprouting in my garden. So this week, I decided to pre-empt those suckers and rid the garden of them before taking root. Not as easy as I thought. Like giant pistachios, they had already split and many a root sprouted, burrowed firmly in the soil.

Most were on the surface, fairly easy to dig up, but here and there I uncovered small clusters under the branches of low bushes, concealed among the stalks.

Then I found it – the Mother Lode, the Cave of Wonders, the Pirate’s Booty. No way was this pile the result of falling acorns. This secret stash flowed from a drain, as if stockpiled in some clandestine plot. This was the resident chipmunks’ winter preparations washed out from recent heavy rains.

The outward appearances of these adorable little furballs belie their true identity – hideously destructive varmints. They burrow holes in the soil, loosen the supporting rocks, and hoard potentially damaging future oak trees.

I don’t usually see any chipmunks as I’m  working. No, they save their activities for when no one is around to witness their detrimental deeds. But the evidence of their handiwork is apparent.

Of course this got me thinking….

These acorns are like the barbed comments that people fling our way. And they hurt, not a bruise on the head, but on the heart. Zingers that find our soft spot, and embed themselves. If we let them take root, they will grow and fester and bear bitter resentful fruit. The longer the root remains, the stronger it gets and the harder it is to remove. It is easy to narrow our eyes at the perpetrator, to retaliate, to judge. But Scripture tells us:

… make sure there is no root among you that produces such bitter poison. Deut. 29:18
See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many. Heb. 12:15

After wasting useless minutes fuming at these critters, I realized –  they are just doing what chipmunks do.

All my anger isn’t going to make them more sensitive.

I can’t change them, but I can change my root structure:

So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in Him, rooted and built up in Him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness. Col. 2:6-7

Instead of hating the chipmunks, I have a choice.

And with those whose comments dent my soul, I have a choice.

I can let them fester, develop bitter roots, and ultimately poison me. Or I can respond as Jesus did. “Father, forgive them. Those chipmunks just don’t know what they’re doing.” Well, a loose paraphrase, but you get the idea.

I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established IN LOVE, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Eph. 3:16-19